From Today, I will be sharing tips on how to break free from the silent killer known as Masturbation.
Why do I call it a silent killer and not 'a wholesome enjoyable' experience? The answer is that even though it is enjoyable, it is not wholesome as the dopamine 'high' released by the brain only lasts for the period of the experience. Thus, it leads to gross disappointment with oneself and the drive to reach that high again.
Because of this incessant need to fill that pleasure void, the victim continues to seek out every opportunity to indulge in the act and I want to state that it is not a 'demon spirit' influence as posited by most clergy who have absolutely no idea about the everyday struggles of the addict and also fail to research about Habits
How then does one break free of this yoke and succubus that keeps draining ones strength, joy and keeps distorting the true essence of sex and relationships?
It is a process, my friends.
A process that will span over a long period of years and not over a period of hours of 'deliverance' like the local preacher will prescribe. This is because it is scientifically and psychologically proved that a force of habit will lessen over a period of ten years. Not ten months! TEN YEARS.
Nevertheless, cheer up because the farther you go without engaging in it and the more committed you are in guarding your mind against such perversive thoughts, the more it would become much easier in overcoming the urges when it comes.
MAKE NO MISTAKE, THE BATTLEFIELD IS ON THE PLAINS OF THE MIND
NOT
SOME DEMONIC SPIRITS FIGHT AS OUR CULTURAL UPBRINGING WOULD HAVE US BELIEVE.
Throughout this month, Bashorunsblog would give out tips to help you overcome as well as introducing you to the most potent friend who can help you to overcome.